Doomscrolling

Posted on Nov 5, 2023 in Uncategorized

I “found myself” in Erik Davis’s column, “Doom Scroll.”

I have been pulling back on media. No TV news, only reading… and now? Often just reading the headlines. Because the media walks me into a living hell.  

Later in the day I participate in conversations that start on a high note only to trail into “informed” doom. But what good are these informed conversations? Talk’s cheap.

I am trying to be a responsible citizen. I just wish the media moguls would join me. 

Vicki


Doom Scroll

Erik Davis

As far as I can make out, the term “doomscrolling” started making the rounds in 2019, and became, for obvious reasons, far more infectious in 2020. We’ve had two more years of pandemic, and a yearish of whatever this next thing we are in is, and the term does not seem to be losing much luster. (…)

I suspect you know it well: whether over breakfast or on the metro or during a procrastination break at work, you dip into your newsfeed, which is largely distressing of course, but you keep at it, heading deeper into the gloom. You might start out with some of that old-school newspaper-reader attitude, a mix of curiosity and responsibility and self-concern, under which lies a more basic and unspoken mimetic impulse to keep up with the pressing narratives of a group, a region, a nation, a species. But then the bottom drops out, and the feed starts to feed on you. The number, scale, and wickedness of the problems served up by crisis media—wicked not only in the sense of being nasty and often nefarious, but of being hairy beyond all possible resolve, and therefore ripe for dissension—rears up like, well, a wicked monster, consuming hope, potential, and whatever modicum of feel-good you started your sesh with. (…)

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Fancy Stuff Isn’t Where It Is…

Posted on Oct 28, 2023 in Uncategorized

Morgan Housel again got my attention, again.

What he says is so true. Yep, I really admire people who drive a car into the ground!

Enjoy your Sunday.

Love,
Vicki


Respect and Admiration

By Morgan Housel

I like the idea of the reverse obituary: Write down what you want your obituary to say, then figure out how to live up to it.

Everyone’s will be different, but I suspect most people would want their obituary to say: You were respected. You were admired. You were helpful. You were a good parent, and good spouse, a caring friend. You were an asset to your community. You made a contribution to your industry. You were wise, funny, and smart.

Now realize what’s not in there.

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Tape It to the Wall

Posted on Oct 21, 2023 in Uncategorized

THIS ONE YOU SHOULD PRINT OUT

Ryan Holiday, who wrote “The Obstacle is the Way” and 9 other great books, also writes a blog. Today’s was particularly good. Enjoy my friends! Print it out and tape it to your wall…

Vicki


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What You Conceive

Posted on Oct 14, 2023 in Uncategorized

The Power of Your Imagination

Hello Readers,

I am taking off a week. Hug yourself and be grateful.

Vicki


The power of what you conceive…

You can imagine a safe place and then you can imagine that you’re not imagining it.

~Milton Erickson, Therapist and hypnotist
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Putting It on Paper

Posted on Oct 7, 2023 in Uncategorized

Photo by Jan Kahánek

I found Katsenelson, an investment advisor, husband and father, who blogs on music and life and has written the best-seller Soul in the Game (which I read), urges us to not miss today.

I think I “missed” many days…for years… as I rushed from pillar to post running a business. I am not saying I wasted my time, but I seldom stopped to treasure being alive.

I am going to do what he suggested. What about you? It might help us realize we are alive from the time we roll out of bed until we roll back in at night.

Sending love,

Vicki


Each Day is a Separate Life

By Vitaliy Katsenelson

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Need to Know

Posted on Sep 30, 2023 in Uncategorized

Photo by BP Miller

Ho Ho Ho Gang –

Bitter pill for some of us… eh?

Well, the older I get the dumber I get and I like it!

Vicki


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How to Help Others in a Disaster

Posted on Sep 23, 2023 in Uncategorized

Photo by Colin Lloyd

Today TalkingBittersweet is featuring an excerpt from Eric Barker’s weekly blog. It is practice stuff on getting your bearings and helping others in a disaster.

I live in earthquake country so I know it is always a possibility that in the next five minutes the earth could open up under me. Or a fire will start and the sky will turn grey and… well…just read it, put the info into your pipe and remember it.

Vicki

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