RISK

Posted on Jan 7, 2023 in Uncategorized

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Collab is group of investment fund advisors whose blog posts often apply to managing more than one’s money. The below post on risk is one of them.

If we anticipate risk at every turn we become paralyzed with fear. That said, if we consider it more often than we do, we can prevent a lot of heartache.  


Nobody Planned This, Nobody Expected It…

The Battle of Stalingrad was the largest battle in history. With it came equally superlative stories of how people dealt with risk.

One came in late 1942, when a German tank unit sat in reserve on grasslands outside the city. When tanks were desperately needed on the front lines, something happened that surprised everyone: Almost none of the them worked.

Out of 104 tanks in the unit, fewer than 20 were operable. Engineers quickly found the issue, which, if I didn’t read this in a reputable history book, would defy belief. Historian William Craig writes: “During the weeks of inactivity behind the front lines, field mice had nested inside the vehicles and eaten away insulation covering the electrical systems.”

The Germans had the most sophisticated equipment in the world. Yet there they were, defeated by mice.

You can imagine their disbelief. This almost certainly never crossed their minds. What kind of tank designer thinks about mouse protection? Nobody planned this, nobody expected it.

But these things happen all the time.

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Two Questions

Posted on Dec 31, 2022 in Uncategorized

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At the end of each year, I ask myself two questions:
  1. What do I want to create in this New Year?
  2. And, perhaps even more importantly, What do I want to let go of?

– Patricia Digh, Life is a Verb

 

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Who Will We Be – Now?

Posted on Dec 17, 2022 in Uncategorized

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Below is Krista Tippett’s letter to the readers of The Pause. Lately I, too, have been thinking about how dependent our entire system is on the well-being of our bodies.  

But where will we land, ultimately?

Will we have grown-up a bit as a result of Covid?

Will we have more open hearts and minds?

Will we address gun violence at last?

Will we dig deep to find emotionally mature intelligent men and women to lead of country? 

Or will we continue to let our judgment slide because we’ve been emotionally scattered and shattered by the slap-in-the face realization we could die – soon.

How will we take that message forward?

Will we remain scared-silly about what we don’t control and turn inward, isolate and cling to cockamamie conspiracies to compensate for our newly realized lack of power…  or will we be “better” for the experience?

Could we learn from it? And act more responsibly than we ever have… in gratitude for being alive.

As Krista asks: can we and will we care?   

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Why Do We Struggle…?

Posted on Dec 11, 2022 in Uncategorized

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Therapy. Something to think about…

Melbourne therapist Ben Fishel’s column this past week is a winner… an interesting dip into the value of therapy and a wise take on being who we want to be… on the way to getting where we want to go.  Enjoy! 
 
Until next time,
Vicki P

Why Do We Struggle So Much to Heal Ourselves?

By Ben Fishel

Last week I picked up the phone to talk to someone who was interested in getting therapy. The conversation went smoothly, until they asked the dreaded question.

It’s a question that is surprisingly common when people come to therapy for the first time.

The question that all therapists have to answer, yet would prefer not to (actually, I’ve never asked anyone else about this…I’m just being dramatic.)

“What can you do that can help me be happy again?”

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What is a Good Faith Conversation?

Posted on Dec 4, 2022 in Uncategorized

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Nick Cave answers his fans questions, beautifully, on a regular basis. Below is his Nov 2022 “The Red Hands Files” post. It reminds me of the Craig Ferguson quote I have posted in my kitchen: “Does this need to be said? Does this need to be said by me? Does this need to be said by me – right now? 

Enjoy.

Best, Vicki


The Red Hand Files

ISSUE #212 / NOVEMBER 2022

Is it better to keep quiet, or to speak one’s mind?
LAURA, RICHMOND, USA

I have heard you mention ‘good faith conversations’ several times now. What is a good faith conversation and how do you have one?
RAY, LEWES, UK

Dear Laura and Ray,
 
A good faith conversation begins with curiosity. It looks for common ground while making room for disagreement. It should be primarily about exchange of thoughts and information rather than instruction, and it affords us, among other things, the great privilege of being wrong; we feel supported in our unknowing and, in the sincere spirit of inquiry, free to move around the sometimes treacherous waters of ideas. A good faith conversation strengthens our better ideas and challenges, and hopefully corrects, our low-quality or unsound ideas.

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